You’ve given him the best parts of you. Parts that you’ve never given anyone else before, and you know what? …it’s enough. You’ve done more than enough, and if he can’t see that then too bad for him at this point. It’s gonna be his loss, and someone else’s gain. You should never have to fight for love, attention and affection. Here are some warning signs that he doesn’t love you he just wants the benefits of being in a relationship with you.
1. CONSISTENTLY LIES.
You no longer trust him because he is never honest with you. He lies to you about everything even the smallest things. He rather lie to you than be honest just so that you can leave him alone. A man who becomes defensive when asked a question is often a man who is hiding more than just a truthful answer.
2. LACK OF ATTENTION AND AFFECTION.
His attention and affection towards you has all of the sudden shifted. He is no longer attentive, and you find yourself arguing about feeling neglected. He takes little interest in putting a smile on your face.
3. HE NEVER TEXT OR CALLS FIRST.
If a man says “I’ll call you” and he doesn’t, he didn’t forget. He didn’t lose your number. He didn’t die. He just didn’t want to call you or text you. It’s easy for a man who doesn’t love you to go about his day without hearing from you. If he really loved you he would call, text, make plans, take you out etc…
4. DISRESPECTS YOU.
A man that doesn’t love you will have no problems disrespecting you. Real love is never abusive or disrespectful.
If he’s hurting you, he doesn’t love you. Real love is crystal clear you don’t have to go searching for evidence that he loves you. A man is only going to act right with the woman he truly wants to be with. If he really loved you he would never make you feel like you are asking for too much. If he really loved you he wouldn’t confuse you and definitely wouldn’t have you second guessing where you stand.